Starting a Spiritual Direction Practice: A Step-by-Step Guide

Starting a Spiritual Direction Practice: A Step-by-Step Guide

As a new Spiritual Director with a Certificate, you may be wondering, Now What? How am I being called to put my certificate to use? What is my unique calling to serve the world at this time? Who can help me figure out what to do next?

While your training program likely gave you an excellent foundation and introduction to many useful tools as a Spiritual Director, you may need more guidance in how to start a Spiritual Direction business.

In this post, we will provide an all-encompassing rundown of setting up a new Spiritual Direction practice, including an explanation of why business skills are needed and a how to Seven Step process to get your Spiritual Direction practice started.

How to Start a Spiritual Direction Practice:

Looking for personal help? Please reach out to me at any time to inquire about Private Practice Consultation at laura.lies@streamsgrace.com

What is a Private Spiritual Direction practice and Why does it matter?

With more people graduating with degrees and certificates in Spiritual Direction than ever before (learn more about the expanding world of training programs and how to choose the right one for you), there is a growing need to equip these graduates with the tools required to establish a private practice.  Seeker, Directees, and/or Clients often find it difficult to find a Spiritual Director when they are looking for one.  (Check out the nearly 5,000 Spiritual Directors listed on the SDI website.)  Developing Spiritual Directors to become effective entrepreneurs will help potential seekers to find them when the need arises.


The ancient practice of Spiritual Practice began with the Desert Fathers and Mothers out in the wilderness, where seekers somehow find their way to them. And long before blogging ever existed! Later, church clergy offered Spiritual Direction for one another and for others. In recent decades, Spiritual Direction training programs arrived to offer certificate programs to lay leaders. Today, Spiritual Direction training programs equip new spiritual companions from across a wide array of faith traditions and in some cases with no faith tradition in particular but a shared desire to seek the Sacred. This expansion enables the ancient practice of Spiritual Direction to be made available to more people than ever before.

Terms to Know

Spiritual Companion is a more inclusive and broader term that honors the mutual seeking of the Sacred together.

The Pros and Cons of Payment

There are some who suggest that the ancient art of Spiritual Direction be offered free of charge to seekers. And there are many other voices who believe that it is acceptable and appropriate for the Spiritual Director to receive payment. The new Spiritual Director would be wise to spend enough time discerning and wrestling through this key decision point. Consider how the Sacred may be inviting you to evaluate your relationship to money.

Examples of Spiritual Direction practice websites

How to begin a Spiritual Direction practice: A Step-by-Step process

1. Discern, is this God’s will for you at this time?

  • Ignatian Discernment process. Consider 11 Steps to Making a Decision. A classic approach from St. Ignatius of Loyola that is over 500 years old in the making and still radically relevant today.
  • Which option will bring the most glory to the Divine and be expressive of my own, deepest, authentic self? Best honor the Divine, my neighbor, and myself?
  • Walking through a Guided Meditation process. Picture yourself in the Scriptural story. Be inspired by encouraging messages. Nourish your soul through over a dozen approaches to seek Divine guidance.
  • Pondering Spiritual Questions. Receive the gift of provocative questions that lovingly open you up without judgment.
  • Go on a self-guided Vision Quest or Silent Retreat.
  • More questions to ponder:
  • What am I longing for? What can’t I not do?
  • How am I uniquely called, gifted and positioned at this time?
  • Who is already coming to me for encouragement? What might be my personal niche to serve?
  • What is being asked of me? What is mine to do? Who are mine to love?
  • What is my current image of yourself as a Spiritual Director? How am I being invited to expand this image?
  • If ever there was a time to experiment and to take a calculated risk, is this current unprecedented season such an invitation?
  • How could the bold step of starting a Spiritual Direction business in itself be considered a spiritual practice? How is this act expanding me? My soul? My borders?
  • What is holding me back from moving forward? What have I got to lose? What needs to die within me to welcome the new?

2. Surround yourself with Encouraging voices.

  • Hiro Boga. Hiro is a mentor and guide for Visionary Entrepreneurs. Her creative writing will inspire you and feed your soul.
  • Laurie Beth Jones. Laurie authors wildly popular business books from a spiritual perspective. Her personal mission is to recognize, promote, and inspire divine connection in herself and others
  • Mary Manin Morrissey Inspiring comments to help you to find and fulfill your mission.
  • Various authors who address Transitions. Read several articles from a wide variety of authors to infuse Courage into this in-between season of transition.
  • Always Remember your Why. The purpose, cause or belief that drives you.

3. Equip yourself with practical guides.

4. Establish an online presence.

5. List on dedicated Spiritual Direction websites.

6. Address small business requirements.

According to Lynn Grodzki, Private Practice Coach, therapists and other helping professionals (such as Spiritual Directors) often lack the business skills needed to run their practice. The good news is that we can learn how and that there are lots of great tools out there to support us. Such as the following to help you get started today:

7. Find new Spiritual Directors to encourage.

  • Band together with other Spiritual Directors from across the globe to create virtual communities. 
  • Discern how the Divine is inviting you to help others to get started. Pave it forward.

More Resources

Just three short years ago, I launched a new Spiritual Direction practice. Now, supporting a full-time practice of over 40 directees, publishing over 60 blog posts, and welcoming over nine thousand unique visitors to the website, I share the steps and resources that have been the most helpful in building my private practice. May my sharing inspire and encourage you to consider stepping out in faith, to start something new, to bless a desperate world, for such a time as this. The time is now.

If after reviewing these resources you would like to meet on a live video call for personal consultation to further discuss the possibility of getting started in private practice, please feel free to drop me an email at laura.lies@streamsgrace.com 

Looking for more support in getting started?

Here are a few ways to consider working with me:

  • Schedule a Free phone consult with me; to discuss the possibility of my helping you to launch your practice.
  • Write a Guest Blog article for my Blog. Get introduced to people looking for a Spiritual Director.
  • Speak on an upcoming Webinar “Taste of Spiritual Direction” to introduce yourself and present a brief spiritual exercise to webinar guests and others who will view the recording.

Struggling with Doubt? Find spiritual resources to encourage you to Persevere.

Looking for more personal support? Consider scheduling a Strategic Consultation session, or two.  To dig deeper into discernment, to receive a vision, to discover a road map of what your practice might look like for your unique calling, gifting and positioning.  To plan and fine tune your marketing: Website review, Launch campaign, Social Media set up. Ready to get started? Email me at laura.lies@streamsgrace.com

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